A Valentine’s Day Collage…
I’m not sure why I’m posting this on Transitional Tuesday…
This year Valentine’s day won’t be easy for me. It will be a reminder of what I don’t have and maybe never did. So, like an anorexic who doesn’t partake of food but enjoys cooking for others, I will dedicate this post to romance and all that it entails; soul mates, dreamy lovers, lustful encounters, and those who are waiting to be loved completely.
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beautifully done — when the time is right for you–you will find the right one–I did not ever think I would find the right one (truly) and I did
you summed up love so nicely, you have so much to share, I am happy to call you my friend–you have such a wonderful heart–instead of brooding you share
Thanks, LouAnn. I feel the same way about you. It’s nice to connect with someone on those deeper levels. Your kind and thoughtful comments always mean so much to me. š
Hope you’re having a blissful day!!
xoxo
Lisa
I have heard some commenters say that some people only comment on the surface and compliment and say kind things without putting a lot of thought into it–I do not do that — I am sincere and I want you to know that the kind things I say to you are from the heart–I am not just trying to make you feel better (though if it works that way–that is good too!
I know that about you. I think, in this way, we’re very much alike. I put a lot of thought into my comments. Maybe too much!! ha! I think it takes one to know one – maybe our two thoughtful hearts found each other for this reason š
a lovely thought – I think it is true
I’d say “remember you’re not alone” however whenever people say that to me it does little to help. Luckily I don’t go out much so I won’t have to see all the happy couples. Instead I’ll just have to hope I have a secret admirer. I think this last year has been the strangest year of love for me and everyone I know. I’ve experienced so much of it at times and none others. I don’t think it’s something a person should ever have to get used to.
Let’s hope Thursday comes and goes real fast!
I’m with you on that. I hate to be reminded that I’m missing something that I really long for. Pardon my French, but it sucks, big time.
In addition to hoping it goes away quickly, let’s wish that we each find that person who is deserving of our greatness. š
I can get behind that wish. Here! Here!
“Pardon my French, but it sucks, big time.”
Whoa! Language!
hahah! I knew you’d say something!!!
Cheer up! This day has been invented by flower shops! To have someone you love and who loves you is nice, but who can tell what tomorrow brings? Today is only a snapshot. Everything changes in an instant. Every day is a new beginning!
Thanks. That’s a good way to reframe it, but still, I’d have to say that “to have someone I love and who loves me,” would be much more than nice.
Everything can change in an instant… I’m waiting patiently for that instant š
I like the dog. š
The dog may be the best part of the whole thing.
The fourth picture, is that from France? The thought of French ‘uns doing… y’know… the dirties, just over the Channel from me, makes me feel queasy.
Anyway, I hope 2013 works out nicely for you, valentines and all.
The dirties! ha! For as much good the French have, they have an equal dose of bad. Thanks, Michael, Happy Valentine’s to you, as well.
Valentine, making single people feel even worse since the 15th century.
hahahah! That’s perfect, Astrid. I’m going to remember that line. Thanks!!!
well I have no “valentine” either so like you i will live through other’s hearts and flowers.. Really loved the F Scott quote…
maybe this time next year you & I will be discussing what dress shall we wear out to Hearts day dinner with our sweeties:-)
thank you for sharing this!!
Oh, that would be great. I wish it for both of us. š
Yes…by then we will be ready to really embrace it I do believe..
Sorry it took me so long to make an actual comment of my own, I was busy making this for you: http://evolutionofhatred.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/valentine.jpg
Because there’s no one more deserving.
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Awww….!! That’s so sweet of you, Pete š
I can imagine that it took a long time – especially the man with his hand on his chest. lol! You’re like a major graphic designer!
This was a very Pete Howorth gesture – kind and sensitive. Just what I’ve come to know of you.
xoxo
Lisa
Haha if major graphic designers used paint then yes š
It’s funny because if people at work were asked what a Pete Howorth gesture would be, their answer would be quite different ahaha!
Based on what you report, I would guess that. If I ever meet them I’ll set them straight. š
:O And ruin my street cred?!
Emotive – another photo of people canoodling and there would have been tears!
I know. It’s a little bit torturous. Thanks for commenting.
Lisa
haha. no it’s great…a lovely collection of love and dreams of what could be…:)
I am just saying hello and thanks for the smile.
A return smile for you, friend.
Grippy – you’re on the road to something new and beautiful ~
Thanks, Denise! I hope so. Right now I’m just dreaming…
Like some of those photos a lot
I know, right. Very heart stirring…
You are loved….ā„ and the kind of true love that you are wishing for will happen!
Aww… Thanks, Ruth. I sure hope so :}
We all love you. And by we I mean me.
I have a totally platonic Valentines post in the hopper for tomorrow. I think you’ll like it. ;D
Thanks, Em! I look forward to it, as with everything you do. š
Love this collage of love. I like the F. Scott Fitzgerald one. I’ll have to read it to Paul because he really likes F. Scott. Lol…I’ll be like, “Doesn’t this remind you of me?” I love finding things for people to remind me by instead of letting them find their own things. pshshahah
Lol! Haha! I know, it’s much easier if you tell people what they think and feel. š
Aw hunny bunny, I’m too jaded to be of any sense. Stuck in a loveless relationship kinda sours you to the whole hearts and flowers day, and indeed romance! So I’m of no comfort or help! So I’ll wish you a quick and bloodless end to the week instead! X@
I’ll take it!! I’d like it to be gone altogether. Perhaps I’ll buy myself a gorgeous bunch of Roses? Flowers sprinkled around the house while there’s snow on the ground outside will always lift my spirits.
To a quick end to the week!!!
Love you!
Xoxox
Lisa
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That first one gave me a chill. It’s nice to see you keeping love alive!
That’s my favorite, too. I’m sure we both know that feeling.
Very romantic, indeed. And if such romance appeals to you, it will surely be attracted to you at some time, probably utterly unexpected.
I remember it ever so faintly, but it’s still there. I hope with all my heart that this part of my life can be resuscitated. I’m sure if it does, it will be when I least expect it. š
Don’t ever let anyone take away your romantic spirit, Grippy.
And keep on celebrating it!
Thanks, kind friend. I’m trying to keep it alive. š
To romance! To its fantasies and reveries! William Shakespeare knew, didn’t he? It’s the smile that brings us to our knees.
Yes, he did indeed. That’s a very romantic quote, definitely my favorite in terms of “love” quotes. I’m glad you like that one, too. š
Oh Lisa. How wonderful it was to read these! I lingered on every one. (After I stopped laughing about the anorexic line. . . LOL!!) Oh I think you will be experiencing the best Valentines ever one of these days. I just have a feeling . . . and I’m kind of psychic! š
I’m counting on your ESP for the wrong people and psychic abilities!!! š
LOL!! š I’ll do my best!! š
So wonderful! Thanks for sharing
Thanks, Jack! I wish you love on this Valentine’s day!!
Lisa
Big love to you too Lisa!
Big love right back at ya!
Touching post! Loved the way you inserted the pics, it was an awesome journey. Sending you love and green lights dear. š
Thanks, Fellow Traveler!
I could have put in different images that would please more people, but I just put in the ones that pleased me š
I wish you love on this Valentine’s Day and always!
Lisa
Pure heart – like you. I have no doubt this journey of yours is leading straight to love. I started my Valentine’s having smoke detectors installed in the house, isn’t it romantic? Sending you a cyber Valentine, love and kisses,
V
That’s just so romantic, V. I’ll have to do that next year. I’m afraid there’s no time left in my day to buy smoke detectors. Drat.
Thanks for the “pure heart” compliment – what a wonderful thing to read. That’s all I need for the day, I think. š
For you, a package of love and kisses tied with a beautiful red satin bow. xoxo
An excellent collage. I am another who loves the first quote–oh! How that smile can floor us when it happens!
I wish you well, Grippy. May this upcoming year bring you romance and happiness and someone who will smile that smile.
x
Thanks, Addie. The first quote is the best. How many times have I not wanted to respond to a look and then spontaneously let a knowing smile slip in anyway. That moment is magic.
I wish both of us romance and happiness this year, as well. xoxo
I wouldn’t mind having an Encounters Day instead š
I certainly wouldn’t mind that either!
Have a beautiful day, Raunak!
you too Lisa š
This was a work of art. Every selection was perfect.
Sadly, Sonny and Cher didn’t even stay together.
After my divorce I think I became a different person. My heart was broken. All the first anniversaries were painful. But I am who I am because of my pain and joy.
I already see an even better writer bursting from you!
At least. ..
What doesn’t kill us… gives us better material!
Have you read Bill Sweeny’s blog? It has changed my life or at least my perspective! He has ALS & his last blog about A Dream is worth the read!
By the way… you will have a Valentine again ā”
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I did.
You’re so sweet Diane, Thanks. I just don’t know how to unlove somebody. I spent most of yesterday crying. I know I don’t have to stop loving this person but, continuing to love him is awful. Either way, it’s painful. I think I love too hard. I give it everything I have. I probably do this because that’s how I want to be loved – with someone’s total heart and soul. It’s all so messy. I hate it.
True. What doesn’t kill us gives us better material! haha!
I’ll check out Bill Sweeny’s blog. How do I find him? Does he just go by Bill Sweeny?
Thanks for the love, girlfriend! xoxo
It’s called unshakable hope
I promise you will never be the same!
Take the time to read a few. But the dream really made me realize how much I have.
Oh Lisa I so know.
I also never unloved my first husband. I know it was painful for my husband while my first was still alive (he died 5 years ago) but while he was alive, my husband now, allowed him to come for every holiday and event like graduation…. because he loves me. I am just beginning to see that my husband loves me more while I was loving my first or EX more. (See…I find it hard still to say it how it is…my ex!)
It still hurts! But there are others out there who love like you! The wsy you deserve to be loved.
Sorry. ..I’m out of town so doing this all on my phone lol.
Please go find Unshakable Hope. .. you’ll never look at things the same again. He writes his blog all with a visual computer!
I don’t know how I missed out
on this one but I certainly like it š
I hope that your Valentine’s Day
and evening were very nice š š
Thank you so much! I was a little low but I’m turning it around. Today I have a blue sky, here in Chicago, so all seems right with the world. š
I hope you have a wonderful day!
Lisa
I hope that you are feeling much better soon my friend š I think that it must still be morning where you are and so lots of time to make your Sunday a much happier one. I will send you some of my most positive vibes š
Thank you, friend! š
I reread this one again. This is iconic in your posts. I hope next year that when you read it, (and I hope you will) blessings will have knocked your socks off in-between! I had to stop in here and say that the letter you wrote to Bill (unshakable hope) was some of your best writing. It was so annointed, I cried. You are an amazing encourager and I think that what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger and you my friend are my example… my other Bill so to speak!
Using the heartbreak to grow more than you might ever have without it. You are amazing!
I wish I could snap my fingers and be with you face to face so I could give you a hug, Diane. You are so kind and giving in your comments. I know your heart is pure gold. I love you for all the encouragement you’ve given me. The feelings are clearly mutual!! xoxoxo
Bill is such a great spirit. I’m so glad you directed me to his post. He has nothing to fear and everything to look forward to. Such a brave soul. š
Blessings to you, my sweet friend!!!
xoxox
Lisa
Me too. I wish we could snap our fingers and be face to face! Funny how we find friends. I don’t always have the same desire to put aside time for friends right in my own little circle and then I meet someone like you who I would like to plant right next door! Great thing is… someday we will all find each other in heaven. I have no doubt. But in the meantime, I am so glad God gave you to me here! I pray for you everyday. I know that your heart is raw and not to push too hard because it is all still so fresh but if only you could see all the the things God has in store for you… you would run into each day like it were a finish line of a long race you finally won!!!!!
Love you my friend. Just KNOW that God keeps HIS promises and those rainbows he sends are reminders that there is a silver lining on all those clouds!
Off to work… Have a great day!
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I KNOW we’ll find each other in heaven. I’d know your spirit anywhere. š
xoxox!!!
You have a beautiful day as well, Diane.
All my love,
Lisa